Wednesday, June 23

*F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P*

1.Childhood friend named Sudama comes to meet the Lord krishna at his entrance. The god goes himself towards Sudama to welcome him and tastes the bitten rice prepared by the friend happily.
2. One Easop's fable: Long Long ago there was a lion, who relieves a mouse on it's request. Later, the mouse releases him from a lion-trapping net.
The moral: a Friend in need, is a Friend indeed!
3.Bollywood movie titled 'Dosti',in which two friends, one of them is blind and another is disabled.They have coloured nice Friendship in the black& white movie.
I have grown-up with these three things in my mind from childhood. I left my home in the quest of education, when I was not even of thirteen years old.Whenever, I get a flashback of last 13 years of staying away from my family, i see many kinds of Friends and Friendships, due to virtue of which my mind is nurtured from being to well-being.
There are many kinds of friends, you can say,
1.which makes you laugh and reduce your tensions,
2.which shows you mistakes,
3.which pats you on your success and gets happy,
4.which helps you in your studies,
5.which gives attension when you are hospitalised,
6.which handles your parents,
7.which gives you his shoulder to cry.
There are many kind of Friendships too,
1.Cause friendship: when cause(studies, job etc.) ends,friendship becomes faint or ends.(is this a real friendship?)
2.Long distance friendship: here attachment is depended on the hearts(and not on the brain strictly)which are in the friendship.
3.Opposite-sex friendship: This is most delicate type.It comes with a tag 'Handle With Care."When any misunderstandings put their heads-on, the beautiful friendship ends.
4.Long lasting friendship: Amongst distance, silly fightings, misunderstandings; it goes continuously.It doesn't matter whatever matter lies between them.
I tell,
There should be mutual understanding, support, encouragement. There should not be jealousy,attitude or ego. If there is any fighting and nobody is breaking the ice; psychology says, speak with the friend within 6 months to get attached as before. Don't feel low.
Initiate yourself, apologize or forgive; make mind free and broad!
At last "Good Friendship is the Heaven on the Earth!"