Wednesday, June 23

*F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P*

1.Childhood friend named Sudama comes to meet the Lord krishna at his entrance. The god goes himself towards Sudama to welcome him and tastes the bitten rice prepared by the friend happily.
2. One Easop's fable: Long Long ago there was a lion, who relieves a mouse on it's request. Later, the mouse releases him from a lion-trapping net.
The moral: a Friend in need, is a Friend indeed!
3.Bollywood movie titled 'Dosti',in which two friends, one of them is blind and another is disabled.They have coloured nice Friendship in the black& white movie.
I have grown-up with these three things in my mind from childhood. I left my home in the quest of education, when I was not even of thirteen years old.Whenever, I get a flashback of last 13 years of staying away from my family, i see many kinds of Friends and Friendships, due to virtue of which my mind is nurtured from being to well-being.
There are many kinds of friends, you can say,
1.which makes you laugh and reduce your tensions,
2.which shows you mistakes,
3.which pats you on your success and gets happy,
4.which helps you in your studies,
5.which gives attension when you are hospitalised,
6.which handles your parents,
7.which gives you his shoulder to cry.
There are many kind of Friendships too,
1.Cause friendship: when cause(studies, job etc.) ends,friendship becomes faint or ends.(is this a real friendship?)
2.Long distance friendship: here attachment is depended on the hearts(and not on the brain strictly)which are in the friendship.
3.Opposite-sex friendship: This is most delicate type.It comes with a tag 'Handle With Care."When any misunderstandings put their heads-on, the beautiful friendship ends.
4.Long lasting friendship: Amongst distance, silly fightings, misunderstandings; it goes continuously.It doesn't matter whatever matter lies between them.
I tell,
There should be mutual understanding, support, encouragement. There should not be jealousy,attitude or ego. If there is any fighting and nobody is breaking the ice; psychology says, speak with the friend within 6 months to get attached as before. Don't feel low.
Initiate yourself, apologize or forgive; make mind free and broad!
At last "Good Friendship is the Heaven on the Earth!"

5 comments:

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  2. There are many stories we heard in our childhood about the so called "Friendship" phenomenon. The choice of Stories in short space is nice. The observation about different kinds of friendship is also good.
    Every person has its own opinion/definition about the friendship. I will love to read what is the definition of Friendship according to you.
    But at the same time, I will suggest you to focus on the real social issue which are untouched by any other person or say very rarely touched like "भ्रष्टाचार, बाल विवाह, हुंडा पद्धत, संकृती आणि परंपरा - नवीन पिढीची संकल्पना/विचार..."
    It will be a new wing for your thinking!
    Cheers!

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  3. Really very nice lines.... thank god for giving me friends like U.
    i really appreciate u... n finally agree wid my friend jayant. plz try some new topics other than bollywood.

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  4. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and write like this again and again ........... me too say thanks to god for having friend like u .....
    post here ur kavitas also

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  5. मैत्रीची खोली ओळखीच्या लाम्बीवर अवलंबून नसते..
    मैत्री करण्याची बाब नसून घडण्याची आहे..
    ओढीमधील आर्ततेच्या तीव्रतेवर मैत्रीचा इमला उभा असतो..
    फ्रेण्डशिपचा अर्थ जरी मैत्री असला तरी मैत्रीतल्या पीळाची तुलना
    फ्रेण्डशिप मधल्या उथळ बॉण्डशी करता येणार नाही..तसंच सन्मित्राची सर फास्टफ्रेण्डला येणार नाही.
    बरेचदा मायमराठीतील शब्दांमध्ये दडलेल्या भावाच्या प्रकटीकरणासाठी आंग्ल भाषा तोकडी पडत असावी..

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